Get on fast
When you meet somebody new (read hot lady)Never let three seconds pass or she will get defensive and you will loose your confidence.
Just say Hullo "I'm #46@**"
She'll say her name. When she does after aboput thirty seconds of conversation say " By the way I've met so many _____'s but they've never been nice. I'm glad you are different"
She'll redeem her name !